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Workaholics Anonymous Quiz: Are You A Workaholic?

Wesley's picture

Workaholics Anonymous has prepared twenty questions to ask if you suspect you are (or somebody you know is) a workaholic:

1. Do you get more excited about your work than about family or anything else?
2. Are there times when you can charge through your work and other times when you can't?
3. Do you take work with you to bed? on weekends? on vacation?
4. Is work the activity you like to do best and talk about most?
5. Do you work more than 40 hours a week?
6. Do you turn your hobbies into money-making ventures?
7. Do you take complete responsibility for the outcome of your work efforts?
8. Have your family or friends given up expecting you on time?
9. Do you take on extra work because you are concerned that it won't otherwise get done?
10. Do you underestimate how long a project will take and then rush to complete it?
11. Do you believe that it is okay to work long hours if you love what you are doing?
12. Do you get impatient with people who have other priorities besides work?
13. Are you afraid that if you don't work hard you will lose your job or be a failure?
14. Is the future a constant worry for you even when things are going very well?
15. Do you do things energetically and competitively including play?
16. Do you get irritated when people ask you to stop doing your work in order to do something else?
17. Have your long hours hurt your family or other relationships?
18. Do you think about your work while driving, falling asleep or when others are talking?
19. Do you work or read during meals?
20. Do you believe that more money will solve the other problems in your life?

LifeTwo's perspective is that many if not most of the questions above can be answered affirmatively by individuals who don't have work prioritization issues. However, #'s 14, #17 and 20 are certainly signals that the work-life balance is not sufficiently balanced and that some outside assistance might be beneficial. While it's possible that one is simply in a job or has a boss that requires too much of them, it can sometimes be hard to see this without the perspective of a third-party--particularly if the problem is within the individual or if the worker is using work to compensate for something else in their life. In this way organizations such as Workaholics Anonymous (and LifeTwo) can be useful resources for a life course re-correction the same way that Gambler's Anonymous and AA are able to help with those compulsive behaviors.

About Workaholics Anonymous:

Workaholics Anonymous is a fellowship of individuals who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may solve their common problems and help others to recover from workaholism.

The only requirement for membership is the desire to stop working compulsively. There are no dues or fees for W.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. W.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stop working compulsively and to carry the message of recovery to workaholics who still suffer.

By the way, if you responded "yes" to several of the questions above, Workaholics Anonymous reminds you to relax and to know that you are not alone. Your recognition of the problem is the first step toward your recovery.

The second step is to peruse the articles on this site as there is a lot of information that should be very beneficial to you. If you are unsure how, a good place would be to click on one or more of the "tags" below or read this post.

This post is part of LifeTwo's Midlife Career Change FAQ covering all aspects of changing careers in middle age.

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Anonymous's picture

I need a support group.

Can you give me a list in the OKlahoma City area, preferably the NW side of town.

Amen.

Anonymous's picture

Any support groups in Perth, Australia?

Hi, are there any support groups known in Perth, Australia?

Cheers.

Anonymous's picture

Support groups in the S.F. Bay Area

Hi,

I live in Mountain View, CA and would like to know if there are any support groups near by, and I don't want to work to much to find one. Thanks

Todd

Lisa's picture

Start One

I started a small group based on a self-help book. I advertised for participants on Facebook and made up a card to hand out to various mental health professionals. It wouldn't be competition for them, because you wouldn't be charging any money. You could also put up a flier in churches and on any bulletin board at all.

Small groups are difficult to get going, for me anyway because I'm not a very socially connected person. But even trying could be a good thing, and who knows, you might succeed and really do some good.

In each meeting you quote something out of the book that reached you.

A small group is a bunch of strangers and there's usually some static. Don't let the negative exchanges stop you because if the group can get through that, it improves the whole process.

I'd suggest laying out a short list of expectations, such as "Please refrain from commenting on another person's situation and let everyone have their turn to speak." And if someone is monopolizing the time with a monologue, you the moderator have to be able to say, "Our time is short, so may I request that we move on to the next group member."

If you will at least try, you'll gain a new experience.

Find a book to work out of. When you advertise the group, explain what the book is about and how the group functions. Maybe have the meeting in a relaxing place, but I find a library or a bookstore is usually accomodating.

Anonymous's picture

I'm a workaholic

It wasnt a surprise for me to know I'm a workaholic (60 hours a week on the computer, I think any one will know he is) I also took a quiz on the site http://www.matchspecial.com/quizzes/workaholic.php that gave me a score of %85. At least I go 4 times a week to the gyme. I know Im a workaholic but hey, I like what I do, its my own my own business so why not.

Anonymous's picture

Workaholic

I´m a student of psychology health in Portugal. In thesis end of the course the theme of my work is:"Workaholism and Suicidal Ideation in the judicial police". But only one person has done research in Portugal (scientific) in this area,so has been difficult to find material. If possible I would like to know how to find the different scales of "workaholic" or if could send it to me. My email it´s: Oceanwhiterose@hotmail.com

since now,thank you for your attention Helena Santos

cdrates's picture

quiz

Hey, I tried to take that quiz but that url isn't working, anyone know where it is?

Wesley's picture

quiz

This is an older post so the link might no longer be active.

Truth is that if you think you even might be one, it's probably time to change a few things!

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