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Midlife Crisis, midlife crisis - man / male

Listen to Dave Schoof Interview LifeTwo's Co-Founder

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Our friend Dave Schoof interviewed one of LifeTwo's co-founders for his "Engaging The Disquiet" podcast. The two discuss how LifeTwo came about and discusses "the Disquiet" with Dave (that's Dave's term for the unsettled feeling men may get in middle age). »more»

A chance to hear me talk about the Disquiet

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You may have read my other posts and know I work with professional men in the middle of their lives who are dissatisfied with how it is going.

There is a restlessness and unease that many men struggle with that I call the Disquiet. »more»

    Want to learn more about the Disquiet?
    Want to get some ideas on how to work with your own Disquiet?

Newsweek Feature: Men and Depression

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The February 26th issue of Newsweek has a cover story on men and depression. In it, Julie Scelfo writes:

"Six million American men will be diagnosed with depression this year. But millions more suffer silently, unaware that their problem has a name or unwilling to seek treatment. »more»

A Clear-Eyed Look At Midlife Crisis

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An article in Portland newspaper The Oregonian supports LifeTwo's approach to midlife crisis. In "Stumbling in midlife needn't lead to a major fall," reporter Patrick O'Neill talks to several counselors and academics and summarizes their take: "as men age, they trip on stumbling blocks that can cause stress, anger and fear." »more»

Is Your Self Improvement Stressing Your Family? Yes!

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After many years of working around human development, I have watched people who go through significant growth experience stress in their families. Even when change is for the better, change is still change. »more»

Should you tell your kids about your midlife crisis?

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I was reading this article how to become a better dad on the Men's Health Magazine Blog recently. It had some good points. »more»

How to Survive Your Husband's Midlife Crisis: Strategies and Stories from the Midlife Wives Club

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This book is from a few years ago and we have not had a review copy. However given the interest in male midlife crises from the wife's perspective, we've been working our way back through all available resources on the subject. »more»

What do I do if I think my husband is having a midlife crisis? Part 2

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To continue the discussion started earlier in Part 1, here are some things you can do:

Ask questions, but in a way that helps. »more»

What do I do if I think my husband is having a midlife crisis?

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PART 1

That question arises usually after a husband has become a Dr Jelly/Mr. Hyde, switching from his "normal, old self" to a screaming abusive monster over the slightest trigger. Or, at the other extreme, he becomes withdrawn and non-communicative. And then the times when it's too late, he has fallen for a young woman, had an affair and run off leaving you and the kids.

And even if it's not too late, what can a spouse do? »more»

How can I stay centered and grounded no matter what is thrown at me?

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By now, you have picked up on one of the central themes in how to navigate your mlc is to engage with your experiences, feelings and emotions directly.

That can be pretty hard to do, so one of the first skills I teach new clients is an exercise on how to stay solidly grounded. It's easy and very useful. You can read it below. »more»