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Women In MLC: The Dorothy Syndrome Forum
Submitted by shepherdess on July 31, 2008 - 9:44am.
What the heck is the Dorothy Syndrome and what does it have to do with mid-life crisis? Well, it has everything to do with MLC! The Dorothy Syndrome is a phrase that I coined and is the premise for my upcoming book titled "The Dorothy Syndrome: Mid-life on the Yellow Brick Road". While coaching at another web site forum, I started using the metaphors used in one of my favorite stories and movies..."The Wizard of OZ". I was astonished at how easily I could use the dialog from the movie or premise of the story to describe the transitions, emotions, the typical experiences that occur during an MLC, whether it be for the woman or the man. The forum members could easily understand the correlations and even began using the same analogies that I had started in my discussions. As a preliminary promotion of my upcoming book I have created a forum for both women and men to come discuss, receive encouragement and guidance on MLC. I will be continuing my dialog using the Dorothy Syndrome metaphor/analogy. The forum for the women is primarily for women who are experiencing the crisis themselves, not necessarily for women who are dealing with their husbands who are in MLC, while the men's side is for husbands dealing with a wife in MLC. This forum is a safe haven for the women and learning ground for the men. It has been only recently that women in MLC has been acknowledge as a true experience that we go through. In fact the degree of MLC that women experience is STILL downplayed or brushed off as something that the woman will just get over or will end when they're finished going through menopause. Do not kid yourself...this is real...it can get very bad...it has many causes and triggers...it doesn't miraculously go away. Many families are being torn apart by this new phenomena....BUT...there is hope...in the knowledge and understanding of the what I call the MLC tornado, the process that each MLCer MUST go through to discover that they have always had the power to go "home". Come join me at http://womeninmlc.lefora.com/forum/ and discover what you can do to avoid the pitfalls of having the Dorothy Syndrome or if you are living with a Dorothy...discover what you need to do to keep the Flying monkeys at bay. Even if you are not experiencing this phenomena...learn about the syndrome...keep your eye out for the signs...be amazed at how common it is today...send the link to a friend who may be in need of our counsel. Believe me when I tell you...a person who is in MLC must travel the Yellow Brick Road to discover their brain, heart and courage...you can not tell them these things...they wouldn't believe you anyways. Please join us! Women in MLC: The Dorothy Syndrome http://womeninmlc.lefora.com/forum/ Read Similar LifeTwo Stories:
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Okay, what could the Dorothy Syndrome be?
Maybe Elmira Gulch is the agent we fear, because we don't wanna be like her!
The books that I am drafting on Mid-Career and Beyond
Please pay attention. I know it is difficult to follow all of this talk going back two years, or maybe more on these pages, but if you happen to gravitate to this. Do spend some time to think and respond. I would appreciate it. I am a certified Life Transitions Coach, www.sapiencecoaching.com and reachable as cited below. I am writing texts on Mid-Career Change and mid-life to pre-retirement challenges. I would like to get some synopses of your successful or challenging career-change or changes as well as your answers to the following questions: 1. To what extent do you think multiple career changes are a sign of indecision about goals and purpose or confusion about one's own identity.
2. Did you have a complete plan before making a change or did you just go for it, and follow your heart?
3. Do you consider mid-career change a return to former passions or a finding of oneself for the first time?
4. Is mid-career change motivated more by financial(survival) or self-actualization reasons? You may submit on this site or send directly to me, or both: heb@sapiencecoaching.com. Thank you.
Are you Spamming this thread?
I am confused...this has nothing to do with the topic of this article...the article is not about career changes or pre-retirement challenges...I wish it was that simple.
You need to learn some blog etiquette...at least re-write your spam so it fits the topic...it will go under the radar then.
I enjoyed this article...it's too bad it was spammed with some other junk.
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