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Do you like "Productivity Porn"? Many in Middle Age do
Submitted by Wesley on June 10, 2007 - 8:31pm.
There is never enough time to do the things we want, particularly in middle age where one's time can readily be squeezed by the generations above and below. (Of course there is always enough time to do the things we don't want to but that will be the subject of another post). Thus productivity can be important for one's level of happiness since it provides both the time to do those fun things as well as give us a sense of accomplishment. Not surprisingly an entire cottage industry has blossomed addressing productivity from every possible facet--including it's own endemic terminology. For some the quest for productivity becomes an end in itself separate from the free time that it creates. In fact, some people spend so much time on being productive and all of the latest productivity tools that they end up spending more time being productive than what could ever be saved. For this group, the term "productivity porn" applies.
If you are interested in productivity porn, or more seriously just being more productive, here are a few popular resources: LifeTwo will also post productivity tips (often garnered from these sites), particularly as they relate to dealing with our midlife time demands. As mentioned above, middle age is a time that everyone and everything wants a piece of you--including that little voice in your head that says "Hey, what about me?". Read Similar LifeTwo Stories:
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All self-help is enticing porn
To me, self-help of any kind is the first place I turn when I feel I'm deficient. Diet, spirituality, productivity, "seven habits" of excellent human beings (implying I'm a cruddy human being and need to change) and I'll even buy Oprah magazine. Isn't it kind of funny. And most of the time there's maybe one idea you can get from any given book, that you can actually use right away and not need to start living according to one of their food journals, notebooks, etc.
One author I read a few years ago said to go back through every self-help book you've got, find the one page of stuff that can help you, cut that page out and throw the rest of the book away. Now, that's great self-help.
I'm taking self-help books lightly right now but this is only until I have another bout with insecurity about myself. Like the one yesterday. I went jeans shopping. Seeing myself in the full length mirror threw me into a pit of self-loathing. I went to the bookstore vowing to change my life forever, starting immediately, and I was going to use that book as my guide, and I'd be better or at least I'd be trying, and that surely would give me a little bit of worth.
After awhile I cooled down. The pit of self-loathing isn't a place of good judgment. It's better to start looking at what I'm doing okay with and give myself credit.
But organization books are like porno. They show things only in the best lighting, with perfect models, in a studio, acting as directed, for a certain audience. But in actuality that's not the way it is.
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