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Does Money Make You Happy? (... or, Everything You Wanted to Know About Unhappy Lottery Winners)
Submitted by Wesley on April 26, 2007 - 7:33am.
There are a number of reasons that winning the lottery doesn't buy lasting happiness. First, studies have shown that people get more satisfaction earning their cash than winning it. Second, the boost in happiness from a lottery win has been shown to dissipate over time (this is the so-called "hedonic adaptation"). Studies of past lottery winners shows that happiness levels typically return to where they were prior to the big winning. That said, it's surprising to hear the story of the man who won $315 million in a Powerball lottery resulting in significant unhappiness and feeling of being "cursed." Before digging into his story however let's explore a little further the connection of money and happiness. Does money buy happiness (lasting or not)?Yes, of course, with money you can boost you short-term happiness. According to happiness author/blogger Gretchen Rubin who coincidentally was just musing on this very topic:
This logic is so intuitively correct that it doesn't require further exploration. With money you can buy some things you want and do some things you had always wanted to do. You will either be happy or have "something that feels an awful lot like happiness". But the question is 'how long will this warm, fuzzy feeling remain?' Not long, according to researchers. Income/Happiness ParadoxIf money were to buy lasting happiness then why has:
Part of the reason for this is that many scientists believe that a good portion of an individual's happiness level is relatively fixed:
Hedonic Adaptation?The pursuit of happiness can be likened to a treadmill and in fact the "hedonic treadmill" is another way of describing the same thing--"the notion that we rapidly adapt to improvements in our lives -- and thus can end up feeling little or no better off." Basically the more we have the more we need to boost our happiness level thereby raising the baseline. Why the 'source' of wealth matters to happinessEmory University researchers have determined that lottery winners, trust fund recipients and others who get their money without working for it do not get nearly as much satisfaction from their cash as those who earn it the old fashioned way—by working at a regular job.
Real world case study of a very unhappy lottery winnerIn what sounds like a made-for-TV Christmas story, Jack Whittaker woke up on Christmas morning in 2002 and learned he had won the Powerball lottery jackpot of $315 million. Needless to say, he was a very happy man. But as detailed in this ABC News article, he had "he had no way of knowing that he was embarking on a journey that would lead to tragedy and the loss of everything he held dear." In fact he now says that he wishes he'd never won the lottery. What happened? All of the publicity about Whittaker's new found wealth meant that everyone knew he was a very, very rich man. Almost immediately he was besieged by requests for money and help. He gave away at least $50 million worth of houses, cars and cash and suddenly "the man who won a fortune at Christmas had become everybody's Santa Claus." And everything began to change for him. He started to get sued for all kinds of things.
He began drinking heavily. He became friendless and lonely. One of the most tragic incidents of his wealth involved his 17-year old granddaughter Brandi, who he was very close to. After winning he showered cars and money on the teen. Her sudden wealth and attention created its own problems and she started using illegal drugs, heavily. Then just shy of two years after winning the lottery, she was found dead, wrapped in a plastic sheet, and dumped behind a junked van. Her death devastated Whittaker and making him feel like the lottery win was in fact a curse. Other lottery winners, other sad stories
Sadly but not surprisingly Whittaker's story is not unique nor was he the first to run into problems with his new found wealth. See related story: "More sad stories of lottery winners ending up broke, depressed and lonely". The point is that money can't buy the things that make us most happy--our purpose in life, our relationships with family. Ironically, too much money can hurt these. Lottery winners often lose the need to work at the jobs or companies they had been at but don't replace them with something else that drives them with the same passion. Some friends will become jealous others will ask them for money. In fact, they get so besieged with requests for money that they begin to suspect that's what everyone wants from them, which further drives away close friends and thus away from the things that really can make us happy. Want to improve your happiness? Try this series of LifeTwo posts aimed to help you get an immediate increase in joy in your life as well as set you up for long-term, sustainable happiness. It is based on the work of the person who teaches Positive Psychology at Harvard--the university's most popular class. Don't you have 10-minutes to see if you can be happier? (Link). Read Similar LifeTwo Stories:
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that will do..
> Yes, of course, with money you can boost you short-term happiness.
..why not? why wining the money have to buy everlast happiness? the short-term happiness will do.
The only thing wrong with short-term happiness....
...is that it ends. Without a doubt we enjoy the happiness spike that comes with an unexpected surprise (for example winning something). But it's important for people to know what things do and don't bring real (long-term) happiness so they can make better decisions. For example, a big winner might think happiness will come from buying a home in Hawaii. And it might. But if this leads to separation from the important friends/family, then over the long-run, probably doesn't lead to happiness. Realtors in Hawaii know this and are pretty good at predicting when a newly sold house/condo will be back on the market.
Wesley Hein
Wesley [at] lifetwo [dot] com
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does money make you happy
I think with money in the hand never are happy
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