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I have been happily married for 12yrs we had some ups and downs nothing big until about 2 months ago I went to my husbands work to pick up our son and he told me in front of his workers that he was done with me he can't stand and there is nothing there between us anymore he wants his freedom back about a month before that he started staying out late on the weekends and he would always call me to tell me he was drinking with his friends and the time he would be home as soon as he got in the door and came to bed he would wake me up to tell me he was home sometimes I thought he was cheating on me but I figured why start a problem that wasn't true until the day I found out he couldn't stand me anymore. It felt like a knive was put in my heart and never taken out I lost my best friend my everything.He is only thirty and friends tell me he is having a mid life crisis. Then he moved out and got his own place when are youngest son went to his place to spend the night he came home the next day very puzzled and confused my soon told me who the girl was which I know her because she works for my husband she is only 20yrs. old and still in college which will be starting soon when I found out I flipped out and called him the horrible things he said to me on the phone I just cried he told me he never loved me or cared about me so I asked him if he loved her he said no and then I said do you care about here he told me yes he cares about her.But then another time when me and him was on the phone for a half an hour talking he told me he don't care about her. I also told him this wasn't him I don't know who he is anymore and he actually agreed with me and told me this wasn't him. All I do is argue with him because I want answers and he never has them I ask him what did I do that was so wrong he tells me I took his life away from him I still love my husband with all my heart and still will do anything for him all I keep praying for is him back but I don't ever know if he is coming back to us friends tell me it is just a fling that he will always love you just let him get over what ever he is going thru he is getting older and he's scared please someone help me I am going crazy over this what should I do please some advice.

I'm 24 and have a history of depression. I've had this for almost eight years. The thing is I've also suffered from anxiety in the past. I'm doing better though. However, I thought my depression would go after I've got over my anxiety but nothing seems to work. Sometimes I don't see the point in living. I haven't told this to anyone and my family think I'm being paranoid. Now I think I'm going through a mid-life crisis. I often thing that if I found love I would do better but as soon as someone comes along I run like the wind! I'm just so confused. I constantly feel low and I don't want to meet people. I'm slowly feeling hatred for people. I just can not escape. I had been abused in the past and I can't let go of it. But somehow I feel that I deserved it. I just don't know what to do in life. This is the first time I've admitted this so it's a big deal to me. Please help! I have all the symptoms of a midlife crisis.

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My husband is 37 years old and we have been together for 18 years, a couple of weeks ago he told me that he is not sure how he feels about me anymore and that he's really confused about the way his life is going. He's not sure if he wants the responsibilty of a family (to late) and is doing all the obvious things a person does when going through a mid life crisis, looking at other younger women, talking about getting a fast car, telling me people have told him he only looks 25, drinking excessively and general confusion about his life. I am completely devasted that he may not love me anymore and would hate for him to make a rash decision and leave, this will destroy me and my boys but I also don't want him to stay if he doesn't love me anymore. If he is going through a mid life crisis I would really appreciate some advice from people who have gone through this on how to support him and ride it out, things I could be doing to make is easier for both of us or is my marriage doomed.

I thought he was cheating on me but I figured why start a problem that wasn't true until the day I found out he couldn't stand me anymore. It felt like a knive was put in my heart and never taken out I lost my best friend my everything.He is only thirty and friends tell me he is having a mid life crisis. Then he moved out and got his own place when are youngest son went to his place to spend the night he came home the next day very puzzled and confused my soon told me who the girl was which I know her because she works for my husband she is only 20yrs. old and still in college which will be starting soon when I found out I flipped out and called him the horrible things he said to me on the phone I just cried he told me he never loved me or cared about me so I asked him if he loved her he said no and then I said do you care about here he told me yes he cares about her.But then another time when me and him was on the phone for a half an hour talking he told me he don't care about her.hd movies

Tell him not to take a decision too fast, a such a long story have to continue ! You've got a son, a family, it's not so easy to leave all in a few seconds ! Midlife is hard for man who wants to go back to the past, have girls, sport car, go out every night ! He's got to be carefull because he will lost everything he built ! Forever ! unibet