My husband left in early December and is in denial about having been unfaithful. He constantly lies and it is hard to know the truth as he has been sneaky. This never the case before. We had 24 years of marriage together where we worked well as a team effort. Now he's off on his own quest. It's very difficult to talk with him as he accuses me of "nagging him" and "trying to control him". Also he says I'm too "analytical". Even confronted with what I know, he still denies the truth to me. He doesn't even let me know where he lives (all I know, it's in a bad neighborhood) and wants to have our ADHD son 14 yrs old stay with him. I told him I don't know his whereabouts and what he does; or even the guys which he hangs around with. My husband is 49 years old and is with single-males 25- 35 age range. I know this as we own a business together. This complicates the situation as I must work with him on the weekends and then go home separately knowing he lives else where and is seeing someone else.