My wife doesn't care. Plain and simple. If she loved our son as much as she loves herself, she would try everything to wor it out. Period. No need to unravel it. If that is who she is, then I am not going to be with someone like that. That is a foreign thought process to me. So, as they say, good luck and good night. She will be seeing the therapist Monday night and I will be telling her that she needs to go and stay with her parents. I am very uncomfortable when she is here and when she is not. If she were gone, I could start changing paint colors and rearranging to make the house mine. she says that we should seperate for 6 months and not see anyone to see if the break helps. I've news for her, I am not going into it like that. As soon as she leaves, I am going to work as hard as possible to move on. I will be civil and nice for my sake and for that of my son. If she were to reconsider down the line, I find it hard to see a way that I would accept her back. It would be an extreme situation for me to reconsider. Tae my advice and do the same. If he loves you, he will come back, if not, you will be further along in the process if you start now. Hang in there. I am obviously on the upswing of my emotional rollercoaster. Here's to you ride bac up!!!! :)