Very sorry to hear your story. As you read the various discussion posts at LifeTwo you will read many similar stories. Do your best to take care of yourself during this very challenging time even though proper diet, rest, exercise, remaining social connections might be the furthest thing on your mind. Between dealing with your husband and insuring that your children are sheltered from as much as possible it is easy to see how you might have little left for you but try anyway. The other thing that you will read is that these kinds of things play out over a long period of time so no matter what directions it goes it is likely going to take awhile to get there, This brings us back to insuring that your needs are addressed during this--not just your husband's.

Good luck and you have our thoughts.

Wesley Hein
Wesley [at] lifetwo [dot] com
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