As you grow older, are you amazed to discover that you're accumulating more admirers than you ever had as a young woman?

Is the Law of Attraction pulling men toward you who are looking for a long-term meaning relationship or just a good time?

Is it time to get on with your life and kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince....rather than attempting to seek or 'fix' the men you attract into being what you want them to be...?

Perhaps, you should begin enjoying the freedoms that go along with being over 40 and able to do whatever your want to do, whenever you want to do it; travel, go out several nights in a row without anyone complaining, play the dating field with abandon.

Variety could become the spice of life. You could ski with the ones who ski. Go to the theater with the theater buffs. Enjoy opera with the opera lovers. Savor the best restaurants with those who appreciate good food. Trade one-liners with the funny ones. And have challenging conversations with the best intellects.

Just remember some of the guys you date are 'overqualified for marriage' and just getting on with their lives, too.