I think another reason I am getting frustrated is because even though he had this one breakdown and seemed like he was coming alive somewhat, I am still frustrated because he never seems to want to do anything. He doesn't want to try new things. He is completely settled and everytime I suggest us doing something, he has a reason not to. We never have anything to talk about and dont have really much of anything in common. I think its frustrating probably because we are 6 years apart. I am in my young 20s and I still want to live. I feel like he has just given up, and I am the type that always has to be doing something, always learning something new, always growing, always striving to become a better me. e isnt any of these things. I cant really afford counseling but would love to go even if it was just me but would love to do marriage counseling. I dont think he'd be up for it though. I feel bad because sometimes I think about divorce...its not that I want one...I just wonder if it would be better sometimes. Dont get me wrong I love my husband more than anything....maybe his mid-life crisis has sparked one for me too, which is sad because I am only 22!!!! I hope someone responds with some real advice. Thanks for reading!

Camille