At the beginning of this year my husband and I returned from a trip to El Salvador where he was born. We started building a house there and we were plaing to take our 3 children (ages 13, 11 and 2) there every year to see his family. We were at the point in our lives were everything was going well. We were well established and happy, or so I thought. A short while after we returned he informed me that he no longer had feelings for me. That he has been unhappy for years and doesnt think he has ever loved me. We have been together for 15 years. He is just going to turn 35. He makes excuses like Im too tall, I dont know how to dance, and we got married too young, and we just dont have 'it' We are expected to go to El Salvador for 1 month in a week but Im not sure if Im putting myself in a vulnurable situation or if there is still hope. He has been moved out since the begining of June whe I asked him to leave. He has been going out partying at clubs every weekend for months. He says he does it to get away from me and he needs time. Then when I went away for a weekend with my family he left the kids alone 2 nights to party all nite. I just dont get it. Hes always been a woderful husband and a great father. Always been really responsible. Now he says he doesnt want to be that responsible guy anymore and hes actig like someone I dont even know. I just dont know if going away with him and the kids to El Salvador would be a good thing or is it best to just let him go alone and stay here and work on my own needs?