I feel compelled to comment on "just being a homemaker" since I have some insight on the flip-side of the coin. My wife and I didn't have children (although she wanted to) but she is a successful businesswoman. Recently the decision not to have children has become a huge issue for both of us and we regret the decision immensely. In other words, we/I would gladly trade the careers and money for the family because that is ultimately where security and happiness lie.