Well, husband called mother and told her about the other woman???? He spoke to his mother for an hour. First of all, he rarely calls his mother. Secondly, he knows that his mother doesn't want the marriage to end. She asked him if he loved her and he said he thinks a little but that he "has been thinking". She asked him if the woman knows about me and he said yes. He told her that he was going to divorce me. His mother told him that he was making a huge mistake and that he would have regrets because this woman only wants him because he is American and for his money. I asked his mother to be honest with me and tell me if she thought he was just trying to get her on his side or is he confused. She thinks both! He told his mother several times that he has been thinking a lot. Also, he has recently sent me a friendly e-mail making small talk! What is going on? I am so confused. Any advice would be appreciated....

Not interested in advice about becoming a swinger though! :)