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A Counterintuitive idea

Submitted by Anonymous on December 24, 2007 - 3:26pm.

As a female who went through a husband-hating phase, I can tell you what i read in a book called "Necessary Losses" by Judith Viorst.

Love and agression are two sides of the same coin.

She is probably displacing her own MLC pain onto you, and though it's not fair, if you can get through it by her owning her crap, your love will be stronger afterward.

So, she may be a rotten human being, or she may be immaturely dealing with the loss of her youth.