I think my bf of 7 years might be in MLC. he has started being distant and moody. he spends practically no time with me or his kids. hangs out with friends, hates his job, doesn't call everyday like before, getting an appt with rock group. takes up martial arts, goes on diet so he won't die when he starts new sport, he is out of shape. he tells me all this. never lived with me, has kids from previous marriage. says he doesn't care if he doesn't see them. this is totally out of character for him, Ive known him for 17 years. he say's he's scared of his loss of interest in all that was so important to him before. came on all of a sudden without warning. say's he thinks he's off his rocker. are these signs of MLC? he is 38, short, fat, bald and getting gray. could i be right? i would never tell him i thought this. it might just send him over the edge.
I just back off and go back to what i am doing. i don't call, will he come back around? does it ever end? should i wait around? how long does it last? don't know if I have that kind of time.