If my parents elect to go that route then I would like them to be able to live in an environment that seems as much like their current home as possible. They have spent a lifetime gathering possessions with each one having a story and meaning that is important to them. When I walk into a nursing home I feel like I am in a hospital or a hotel, not a home. I absolutely agree with the writer above. Who has linolium in their homes? (Well, maybe some do and sorry if I offended any that do but you get the idea).

As noted by the commenter above, they seen unnecessarily industrial. I don't see nearly enough pictures on the walls. I think there should be pictures everywhere. Why put all of their photos in storage when they could be used to adorn their living space. It gives them something to look at and something to talk to others about.

As far as activities, things that are challenging and not demeaning. My dad can read a book in one sitting. It would be offensive to him if the most challenging thing for him was bingo night. Professors (or grad students) should come in and give talks on history, literature, the arts.

These are just a few thoughts. Good luck on doing something to improve their dreary reputation. (Senior living that is not my parents!)

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