after 15 years wife says she wants new life. says i've made her miserable and unhappy for 14 of those 15 years. says i'm too content ahd she wants "bigger things" out of life. at 46 she wants to travel, bigger house, luxery car, resents having to work full time, etc., etc. we live very comfortably on dual income of $200k a year.
i've refused her demand that i move out of the house so she's moving into an apartment next week. she's also been abusive and pretty hateful towards me. we have a 12 year old.

she wants divorce. i don't but i won't stand in her way. do you think things are too far gone for mediation to save this marriage and stay wedded?