My husband of 16 years is divorcing me for a girl 10 years younger than I am. He is going through his midlife crisis, a classic case in terms of behavior and distorting thinking. What you wrote hits the nail on the head. Grass might be greener on the other side of the fence, but it is still grass! I know from talking to marriage counselors and coaches that his relationship is doomed since they both cheated on their spouse and are repeating the same behaviors that led them to be dissatisfied with their spouse. There are already signs of future problems. We had a great marriage and we got along fine until she showed up and filled his head with ideas that I was a horrible wife. I have faults, but I certainly don't deserve to be dumped for a selfish, greedy, and dishonest person. Thanks for writing this entry. People need to think about making sound decisions more.