I am a gay 37 year old woman, and I have a 35 year old partner. We have been together for 20 years, we have been having some rough spot here and there for the last few years. She found out she has RA, lupas and Fibro. just about 3 weeks ago we got into a bad fight she was being her rude self to me and I flipped out and told her to get out. and she did and I haven't seen her since. She told me she loves me more than anything in the world but she wants to be free to do what she wants and that she doesn't love me anymore, but shes starting to have feelings for a 20+ year old boy that we both know. She told me I didn't leave you for him he was there, she also told me that she doesn't know what she wants that she wants to get a studio apt. just to be hereself, I told her that if she wanted that to do it and all I wanted is for her to be happy. Shes lives with her 25 years old sister and she tells me she can't see me yet shes not ready, she wants me to move on but not all the way, her sister thinks that it's fine what shes doing and I can't talk to her, I can't talk to the boy to tell him to give some space to see if thats what she wants because all he see is this hot gay chick that wants him. theres no stoping that. I could go on and on on how shes been acting towards me, but i know her and I can hear her coming back sometimes. we have been talking on the phone and Im tring to help and be there for her. But it will be so hard to do that if she strays and sleeps with this kid. I don't want to loose her shes my bestfriend and soul mate..I just need some help???
Help me.....