Thank you Wesley for your comments. I have an attorney and am trying to get my job back (I quit to stay home and raise our baby which is what we agreed upon before all this happened). He won't talk to his best friend about it, but now has moved in with another set of close friends. I'm not sure why they aren't asking him what he's thinking! He also says now that he hates my family and never wants to see them again, that there is no attraction between us and doesn't know if there ever was. However he was the persuer during the entire course of our relationship (13 years). One of our friends said it was almost annoying how much he "worshipped" me. I just don't know what is real anymore. Why would he be so persuant and act so happy and then just end it so abruptly? What could I have possibly done to bring this on? How could he walk away from such a good life and not even look back for a second? We had happy memories, I know we did. Why can't he see any of that? How can people not be telling him to get some help and at least try for our baby's sake? How do I keep functioning and not fall apart? How do I let go since it was not my choice? How can I handle being a single mom...I was just figuring out how to be a mom with help!?! I am so scared and uncertain about eveerything. Any advice?