My husband was loving and attentive and was very happy with our life, and then six weeks after the birth of our first baby (which we tried for a year to have)he says "I think someone else might be better for me." "I'm having to make too many compromises", "You're not passionate about the same things I am, like cars, wakeboarding, and hard rock", " I don't like my job", and "I don't think my parents are happy..my dad never gets to do anything he wants". He then starts hanging out with a young single male employee, flying on his plane, sending him inappropriate text messages at work (as jokes), spent a weekend away at an airshow with this guy, then calls me while I am 1500 miles away with our baby visiting family and ends our marriage over the phone. He has been very mean since this all happened and overly possesive of our baby. When I returned from the trip, he had removed two of his collector cars from the house and has filed for divorce. What happened????