Thank you for your comment because it means so much to me. I am sorry that you also are going through the same problem; it is so heartwrenching. I get up every day thinking about it and pray to God that I can survive this ordeal. I am glad you understand that I love my husband unconditionally. It is exactly that. So many people told me that I should move on to someone else. I know they mean well, but I don't want to. He is the love of life and the man I prayed for to have in my life. He has always been a good husband to me, taking care of me when I was suffering from severe bouts of depression 10 years ago. I hope that he will realize how much I love him; I did tell him he was walking away from his true love. I guess he needs to learn the hard way what true love is. Thank you also about the website. I will check it out. I have also been to Jed Diamond's website www.menalive.com and I bought his book "The Irritable Male Syndrome." This book is an eye-opener on male behavior and acting out. I recommend it. Thanks again. I wish you success in dealing with the tough situation you are in.