I met my husband while in college. He is from another country and we have 2 children. The oldest is 13, youngest 9. We will be going on 15 yrs. My husband has learning disabilities but has a good staedy gov job. In the last year he has been in 2 accidents(the last one I was with him). He turned 40 this year and so did I. I have MCTD and have been on disability for 7 years. He is the only bread winner. After the first accident I noticed a change, but I felt it was due to the recent bad luck we have had with the bills on our new house, my illness progressing and the unisured motorist who hit him. I gained over a 100 pounds and was dx with mouth and cervical cancer. While I was trying to find money for my surgery, he was out buying things. In feb he bought a hummer. We owned it all of 12 hours and were bringing it back when the second accident happenned( again unisured motorist) After this accident he started talking to a young 26 yr co worker. I found out and he told me he had not loved me for a long time but felt guilt because I was sick. I was cancer free and feeling better and losing weight.He said nothing was going on with her just talk they are both from the same country and he would stay till our youngest turned 18, then he would see if if he loved me. He will not cheat and we have had the best sex. He just wants to take it day by day and enjoys my company and is so happy I look better and have lost the weight. What is going on?