I know how you feel my husband and I have only been married for 10 years with one child, he has came forth to me and said he was not happy and he felt his life was missing something. I was completely heartbroken and I am not sure what to do. He then also had an affair and I am not mad at him, I love him dearly and do not want to see the family broken up. He has said that he is sorry and feels bad and just needs some space and time. What does that mean? I am so scared that he wants to leave and cant stand to hurt my feelings anymore. I feel that we can save our marriage and start fresh, I can forgive him in time and start to build that trust. But it hurts the most that he just wants to kinda ignore me. my husband and I were married and had a child only about a year our of high school so neither of us had that single time. But too me I feel that you should forget the past and step up and work on what is going on now. I dont want him to throw away his marriage and his great family. I feel that he will snap out of this and come to. I feel that I can be that missing piece to him. Any advice?? I would love to hear from you.